Written by Tamar Fox. For more pieces by Tamar, check out Behind Closed Doors with Men and Women of the Bible.
When you read Fifty Shades of Grey did you think to yourself: I like this, but I wish it were Jewish? Why does the male lead have to be named Christian?
Well, Karen Exkorn thought that, and decided to do something about. She wrote a Jewish parody of Fifty Shades. How Jewish is it? Well, the male protagonist is named Jew Ishman. So: pretty Jewish. We got a chance to talk to Karen about the book, and she’s generously allowing us to reprint an excerpt from it. You can buy 52 Shades of Blu-ish here.
What got you into writing erotica?
I started reading erotica in college as part of a feminist literature course at Brown University. I loved reading it but felt intimidated to try to write it. But when “Fifty Shades of Grey” came along, I felt inspired to write my own erotica.
Other than Fifty Shades of Grey, what’s some erotica you enjoy?
Anaïs Nin is my favorite writer of female erotica. I remember reading “Little Birds” and “Delta of Venus” when I was in my early twenties. Do you know that Nin started writing porn for a dollar a page because she was broke? She’d never originally intended for her writings to become books. Her books were written in the 1940’s and still hold up today as some of the most sensual and creative erotica in existence.
What made you decide to do a Jewish knock-off of Fifty Shades?
I was sitting around the pool at my parents’ condo in Palm Beach, and I noticed that almost every woman, young and not-so-young, was reading the same book — Fifty Shades of Grey. They were all shouting to each other from their lounge chairs: “Can you believe Christian did that to her?” and “I’m so happy she left Christian!” and all I kept hearing was “Christian” this and “Christian” that. All of these Jewish women are kvetching about Christian! That’s when it hit me. Why not write a Jewish spoof? Instead of having Christian as the main character, why not have Jew?
Jew Ishman is clearly a parody of Nice Jewish Boy. What do you look for in an NJB?
Hmmm. Well, I’m pretty sure that the character Jew Ishman blurs the lines between naughty and nice. But I think that’s why I fell in love with him! I think a NJB should have a big heart, a big soul, and a big…
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Learning about sex and what’s right and wrong when it comes to sex from a Biblical standpoint was an eye opening experience. I completely enjoyed it and think something like this could be a very cool thing to bring to even high school aged Jewish youth groups.
While many people fear the “sex talk,” Jewrotica offers an opportunity for writers and audiences to speak about sexuality in a open and safe space. When I attended a Jewrotica reading, I heard stories that reminded me that love takes many forms, and that expressing it is a vital part of who we are as a people.
I stepped out of my comfort zone to be a part of this. I was glad to open up the topic of sexuality in my community. We are trying to build a safe space to talk about sex. The result I am most happy about coming from this event is that hopefully now my friends know they can come and talk to me, that I can be their ‘safe space’.
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At Jewrotica’s Evening of Bedside Readings, students declaimed monologues on sexual encounters that had a Jewish twist. At Columbia/Barnard Hillel, the speakers pushed their own boundaries by performing a range of explicit narratives that challenged how the audience thought of the relationship to Judaism and sex. During the speakers’ preparation, the arguments about which narratives would be appropriate forced students to take a stand and voice their opinion on their own beliefs about Judaism an… Read more
Bedside Reading with Jewrotica was funny, sexy, and hot all at once. The readings were honest about all kinds of sexuality, but the highlight of the evening was definitely the confessions, written by audience participants. Nobody knew who wrote them, and most were tell-alls that would make your bubbe blush. Unless your bubbe was very, very cool. Then maybe she’d make YOU blush!
I had a great time deejaying at the Jewrotica event at Columbia University. The live readings were hilarious, informative, and in some cases, deeply moving. I know that I, along with many of my AEPi fraternity brothers, loved being able to connect our Judaism and our sexuality in a way that made all of us feel comfortable and welcome. I look forward to being a part of this again in the future!
I attended and participated in last month’s Jewrotica event. The engaging performers and Ayo, our inviting host, inspired the audience to feel like one big community. What a great way to inspire our community to embrace sex as a beautiful thing that can be fun, exciting, sacred, sensual, ridiculous, scary and everything in between!
Jewrotica is inspiring Jews and erotica with holiness and coolness, and is the pride of progressive Judaism. Jewrotica – awesome!
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