After getting off the phone with the domain folks, I made the best decision of this entire project: not to go it alone. Priority #1 was building a kick-ass team of talented and like-minded spirits.
The first team member that I brought on was Jewlicious‘ founder, David Abitbol. David has been a part of Jewrotica from the very start. He slaved over the logo at ungodly hours of night, perfecting the daring Adam and Eve Jewrotica image that adorns the site today and transforming my idea into a reality. David is part webmaster, part visionary and part whatever you need him to be. He knows how to make a page soar when it comes to SEO with building on it and on other sites (like how you’d see on https://victoriousseo.com/services/off-page-seo/), as well as how to sort any of the bugs that come up when you make a website this big.
One fateful afternoon, as I was reading some posts on Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus’s blog, I came across a piece called “The Rabbi and the Vibrator“. I fell in love with its author STS (Sarah Tuttle Singer) on the spot, and offered her a position as Jewrotica’s social media guru. Sarah is the voice of Jewrotica on Facebook, Twitter and other social media outlets. (And call me old fashioned, but the idea of spending my day on Twitter makes me want to cry, so Sarah is one of my most valuable assets.)
In July, I started putting up introductory posts on the site and trolling Google images in my attempts to find aesthetically-pleasing graphics. I quickly realized that we needed a graphic designer who could deliver on my compelling, provocative vision for the site. In early August, I identified and courted our graphic designer, Larisa B. I’ve known Larisa since my teenage years and remembered her as an incredibly talented graphic artist even then. With just a bit of convincing, she joined the Jewrotica team and she has delivered! (Just look at the difference in graphics between Confessions #1 and #4.)
The last core member to join the Jewrotica staff was an addition to our content team. I remembered Adi Elbaz from Johns Hopkins, where she was kicking up a storm in the Writing Seminars, Anthropology, Jewish Studies and Women, Gender and Sexuality departments. Her writing was fun and snarky, and her academic background was practically overqualified. Adi joined the team just over a month ago as Author and Cultural Outreach director, and now oversees the editing of much of Jewrotica’s content.
Our team continues to grow with Ezra Hamui as our Latin American outreach coordinator, Tamar Fox as our brand new Judaic Outreach director and Mara Yacobi as our soon-to-be-onboarded resident sex educator.
We keep a pretty flat team structure and maintain the transparency, fun and passion that comes along with the building of any good start-up. Though we are a professional and highly motivated crew, we occasionally experience the humor of Jewish geography… It was recently brought to our attention that a third of the team graduated from the same yeshiva high school. Every now and then, I wonder if they are proud that the three of us have become, erm… Jewish professionals. I don’t foresee us being asked to speak to the senior class this year, but they’ll come around eventually! 🙂
Thanks for following our journey and keep on reading!
Light and Love,
Celebrating 10 Years & Marking the End of An Amazing Project
Celebrating 10 Years & Marking the End of An Amazing Project
My opinion on Jewrotica is: It’s sexy. It’s awesome. It’s Judaism to the next level. It’s what we should all be getting into!
I’m Heshy Fried from Frum Satire and I am very, very frum. And I completely support Jewrotica – it’s doing a service to the frum community. We need some sort of kosher sexual education. Jewrotica even has a system that allows frum filters to filter out certain things to make it PG for us. It’s mamish Torah. It’s like The Little Midrash Says for sex.
You may not tell your mom that you’re going to a live Jewrotica reading (or whatever clever name you will dub these events) but you will tell your friends. However, both would be jealous if they find out that they missed it. I think it will only be a matter of time before Jewrotica helps us reclaim the term “Dirty Jew” the way rap music has done for “The ‘N’ Word.” I know I am now proud to be a Dirty Jew!
Jewrotica is something that the community has needed for a long time so that people can actually learn, express and share and have good relationships without having to stumble through life. Check out the site and learn something. Have fun!
While many people fear the “sex talk,” Jewrotica offers an opportunity for writers and audiences to speak about sexuality in a open and safe space. When I attended a Jewrotica reading, I heard stories that reminded me that love takes many forms, and that expressing it is a vital part of who we are as a people.
Bedside Reading with Jewrotica was funny, sexy, and hot all at once. The readings were honest about all kinds of sexuality, but the highlight of the evening was definitely the confessions, written by audience participants. Nobody knew who wrote them, and most were tell-alls that would make your bubbe blush. Unless your bubbe was very, very cool. Then maybe she’d make YOU blush!
I’m into Jewrotica. I went in for my second circumcision.
At Jewrotica’s Evening of Bedside Readings, students declaimed monologues on sexual encounters that had a Jewish twist. At Columbia/Barnard Hillel, the speakers pushed their own boundaries by performing a range of explicit narratives that challenged how the audience thought of the relationship to Judaism and sex. During the speakers’ preparation, the arguments about which narratives would be appropriate forced students to take a stand and voice their opinion on their own beliefs about Judaism an… Read more
I’m so glad that Jewrotica is represented here at Jewlicious! It’s bringing voices that need to be heard in the Jewish discussion and Jewish climate environment.
Jewrotica is awesome. It expands the mind and for people who were raised with narrow views on sexuality. Whether you are Jewish or not, or in different sects of Judaism like Orthodox, Conservative or Reform, no matter what your background or where you’re from, Jewrotica gets you to see Judaism and how it relates to sexuality in new ways. I really appreciate Ayo being here and helping us learn different ways to connect with our sexuality.
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