Pent-up sexual energy is a powerful force, and so is the allure of the taboo–especially when it’s birthed from religious disenfranchisement.
The conversation devolved into what it would be like to have a threesome with the Elephant on the road, now long disappeared into our rearview mirror.
There was some dirty talk. We had been on the same one-lane road for hours, with nowhere to pull over so we could get in the backseat and fuck among our beach gear and bike helmets. We had to content ourselves with words, with imagining who our lucky third wheel would be, what she would do, how we would negotiate the sheer physical fact of three people in a bed, instead of two.
When we finally arrived at our rental house, we fucked immediately, frenzied and voracious. “Let’s do this,” we whispered afterwards. “I want to.”
But who? Like a teenage boy in a sex comedy, we were gripped, driven, and defined by desire, but had no idea where or how to find release. It’s not like you can just sidle up to some chick on the street and say “excuse me, ma’am, but I’d like you to help me blow my boyfriend and then fuck you while he watches.” It’s the eternal problem of dating, times three; it’s uncool to advertise so openly what you want. There’s a process involved. Whether it takes a night or a month, both parties partake of an equal amount of coaxing and flattering, of selective self-representation, before they end up in bed. This process is magnified, complicated, when two thirds of the equation is looking for something so specific. Not just sex, but a threesome with a hot, uninhibited stranger who wouldn’t spend the night.
We both rejected Craigslist out of hand, terrified of who or what we might find. Neither of us had any interest in fucking our friends (too awkward) or contracting a stranger’s gonorrhea. I made subtle inquiries of a friend who engages in regular threesomes with her live-in boyfriend. She instructed me to live with hippies and make lots of polyamorous friends. Helpful.
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I attended and participated in last month’s Jewrotica event. The engaging performers and Ayo, our inviting host, inspired the audience to feel like one big community. What a great way to inspire our community to embrace sex as a beautiful thing that can be fun, exciting, sacred, sensual, ridiculous, scary and everything in between!
I love the inclusiveness – there is something for everyone, in and out of the Jewish community.
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My opinion on Jewrotica is: It’s sexy. It’s awesome. It’s Judaism to the next level. It’s what we should all be getting into!
While many people fear the “sex talk,” Jewrotica offers an opportunity for writers and audiences to speak about sexuality in a open and safe space. When I attended a Jewrotica reading, I heard stories that reminded me that love takes many forms, and that expressing it is a vital part of who we are as a people.
Such an amazing experience! The Sarah Lawrence Jewrotica workshop was more than I could have ever expected – a comfortable, safe, sultry environment where participants clearly felt good about sharing or listening to each other’s intimate experiences and relating them to sexy stories from the Torah. From the moment the workshop began, Ayo had a sweet presence that was kinetic and spread around the room; her storytelling abilities had everyone enraptured and made the conversation topics relata… Read more
The Jewrotica event “Evening of Jewrotica: Bedside Reading” was awesome. As Master of Confessions, I got to read the deepest, darkest secrets of people in the room out loud… It was scintillating, titillating, and – yes – even educational!
I’m so glad that Jewrotica is represented here at Jewlicious! It’s bringing voices that need to be heard in the Jewish discussion and Jewish climate environment.
Learning about sex and what’s right and wrong when it comes to sex from a Biblical standpoint was an eye opening experience. I completely enjoyed it and think something like this could be a very cool thing to bring to even high school aged Jewish youth groups.
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