The next night he met me here to smoke, like always, with a bunch of the guys. I was determined to ignore their leers and assessing glances, checking me out now as though they could see through my clothes. I hadn’t told anyone what happened. At the time it felt like such a good idea, but now I just felt stupid.
Now that I had slept with one of them though, I belonged to all of them, or some stupid shit like that. I hoped so. I wanted to sleep over at the house like the other girlfriends did, light Shabbat candles there. I never made rush, when all my other friends joined sororities. This would be like belonging to something. Like fitting in.
I really liked Jake. He was hot. He studied poetry too, just like me. He was in the frat, he said, because it was his dad’s house, and it WAS a Jewish frat, not because he really wanted to be in one.
I got so high again that night that all the stone animals came to life. I danced and twirled my way around the sculpture garden, felt myself communing with the cold marble figurines.
“This one is a cat,” I announced and draped my body across its back, meowing in the moonlight. That’s when I felt Jake come up to me. Suddenly his jean clad legs had spread mine.
“Hey there pussycat,” he said. I meowed in response. “I would so like to fuck that pussy of yours again.”
I smiled and twisted my hips back and forth across the cold hard stone. He fucked me as I made cat-like sounds, my back splayed across the marble of the statue, my knees bent and held up against his chest as he thrust inside of me. I didn’t know where the other guys had gone. For all I cared it was just me and Jake, stoned as fuck, making love in the sculpture garden. I only found out later that all the guys had watched…and recorded…and then posted the video onto YouTube the next morning, complete with many many Facebook links. Way to ruin a girl’s reputation.
For two weeks Jake didn’t return my calls. He wouldn’t speak to me at the Shabbat dinners at the Hillel House, even though he sat across from me. I hid in my room. I cried. I raged at my best friend. Confided in my roommate. I went to the sculpture garden every night, hoping he would show. I was still hoping Jake would come back to me. That he would apologize.
He didn’t. I smoked my stash alone. Everyone on campus knew. I mean, whatever. So now I had a reputation as the campus slut. It didn’t really bother me so much. But I wanted to get back at him. Bad.
He finally called me and agreed to meet for Szechuan noodles. When I got there he was already sitting out on the red wooden steps of the pagoda-themed restaurant holding take-out. I almost cried.
“I got you noodles with black bean sauce, vegetarian, that’s what you like, yeah?” I nodded, too mortified to do anything else.
“Is there any particular reason you don’t want to have a sit-down meal with me?” He looked down at his jeans, scratched an invisible itch, then out at the traffic slowly rolling down the quiet college-town street, then at me.
“I got you a Dr. Brown’s Black Cherry soda too?” He said it like a question, like some sort of apology, as if the addition of the soda would somehow soften the blow of what I knew was coming. “Look, Rachel, it’s just, you know, I don’t think it’s going to work out between us.” I swallowed.
“Did you decide that before or after you fucked me in front of your friends?” I took the bag of takeout from him and walked away. When I got back to my dorm room, my hands were shaking so badly I couldn’t even get the wrapper off the chopsticks, and I could barely break them apart.
“Damn it!” I yelled, and threw the chopsticks across my room. Then quickly got up to retrieve them and ate my black bean noodles, sitting on my bed, looking out the window at the quad down below. I wasn’t mad that I had lost my virginity, I was kind of glad to see it go. I was mad at Jake for breaking up with me, mad at the Youtube video, which had ruined my reputation on campus permanently, and mostly mad because I’d never be a part of their charmed circle. As I guzzled the last of my black cherry soda, I had an idea.
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I stepped out of my comfort zone to be a part of this. I was glad to open up the topic of sexuality in my community. We are trying to build a safe space to talk about sex. The result I am most happy about coming from this event is that hopefully now my friends know they can come and talk to me, that I can be their ‘safe space’.
You may not tell your mom that you’re going to a live Jewrotica reading (or whatever clever name you will dub these events) but you will tell your friends. However, both would be jealous if they find out that they missed it. I think it will only be a matter of time before Jewrotica helps us reclaim the term “Dirty Jew” the way rap music has done for “The ‘N’ Word.” I know I am now proud to be a Dirty Jew!
While many people fear the “sex talk,” Jewrotica offers an opportunity for writers and audiences to speak about sexuality in a open and safe space. When I attended a Jewrotica reading, I heard stories that reminded me that love takes many forms, and that expressing it is a vital part of who we are as a people.
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What an incredible night Jewrotica was!!!! There was this fantastic moment, in a sea of Jews of all sexualities, ages, backgrounds and denominations, that I realized we were all in this together! I hope that there are many more events coming to Austin soon!
I’m so glad that Jewrotica is represented here at Jewlicious! It’s bringing voices that need to be heard in the Jewish discussion and Jewish climate environment.
Learning about sex and what’s right and wrong when it comes to sex from a Biblical standpoint was an eye opening experience. I completely enjoyed it and think something like this could be a very cool thing to bring to even high school aged Jewish youth groups.
Such an amazing experience! The Sarah Lawrence Jewrotica workshop was more than I could have ever expected – a comfortable, safe, sultry environment where participants clearly felt good about sharing or listening to each other’s intimate experiences and relating them to sexy stories from the Torah. From the moment the workshop began, Ayo had a sweet presence that was kinetic and spread around the room; her storytelling abilities had everyone enraptured and made the conversation topics relata… Read more
Jewrotica is awesome. It expands the mind and for people who were raised with narrow views on sexuality. Whether you are Jewish or not, or in different sects of Judaism like Orthodox, Conservative or Reform, no matter what your background or where you’re from, Jewrotica gets you to see Judaism and how it relates to sexuality in new ways. I really appreciate Ayo being here and helping us learn different ways to connect with our sexuality.
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