Confession #21 – My Sexy Wife


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Rated RFor the last few months, I have been thinking about my wife with another man while I pleasure myself. The idea alone makes my climax very intense. I know it’s taboo, but when we go out dancing together or for drinks, I can’t help but notice how men look at her. She’s too hot not to notice. Especially in fishnets and high-heeled boots. I know when I first laid my eyes on her, I wanted to take her upstairs to my hotel suite and have my way with her.

When we first started dating, I was extremely turned on by her, and she knew exactly how to handle a man. I love an experienced women who’s not afraid to show it. Since the first blush of our romance, we have had a strong and always hot relationship that never gets boring. We share our kinky fantasies with each other openly and it’s very hot to hear how much she loves fantasizing about a younger man she knows from the gym. I wouldn’t want her to fuck him because the gym is in our community, but I would love to see her getting it good from a clean guy of her liking. I want him to feel how good she is at everything she does (orally, vaginally, and sex-addict-mentally).

My wife is very submissive, and my fantasies always end up at a random night on the town, during which we end up meeting a single man. I secretly tell him that I want him to start hitting hard and aggressive on my wife while I’m in the restroom or away from her side. I know her well and I know she will already be wet and really turned on when he makes his move. I’ll tell her that tonight she can feel the hot younger man if she wants to. But I have to be there, to participate in our erotic fantasies.

I highly doubt he will make it past the part where she swallows his cock without the slightest gag reflex, but that would be ok with me.

I know this is a little freaky, but I know I’m not the only one who fantasizes about having his wife be a slut (I mean this in the most sex-positive way) for just one night with a stranger that we will never see again.

My wife and I are Jewish – married under the chuppah, broke the glass, signed the ketubah – and I’ve often wondered, in my private fantasies, if it would matter whether the other man were Jewish. In some ways it would make me feel better if he were – someone similar to me might ease any residual fears that my wife isn’t attracted to me, or to my type. On the other hand, if he were too much like me, would I become superfluous? Would it defeat the purpose of finding a man to dominate my sexy wife?

Is there a particularly Jewish form of masochistic fantasy, in which a powerful gentile with a large cock satisfies and dominates a woman in a way that is unthinkable for the modestly-endowed, mild-mannered Jew? Is there a homoerotic dimension to this fantasy, or to the fact that I am turned on by another man fucking my wife?

Females reading, how should I approach this? Do I tell her how I have been thinking about this and that I want to make the fantasy a reality one night – OR don’t tell her and let it happen to her by secretly telling the guy what to do to her when I step away? Your feedback would be nice.

Males? Am I the only one who has thought about/done anything like this? If you have done this with your wife, was it hot and good for her and you? And are there any single men who have been proposed to participate in this fantasy with another man’s hot wife?

I know she would climax very nicely if she had a spontaneous fuck from a stranger while I help out. She is in touch with her body and has a healthy kinky side. I welcome your comments and please don’t judge. All hot sexy women with good appetite need different meat once in awhile and I want to see it happen. But for now it’s going to stay a hot fantasy of mine.

– Male, 36, New York (NY)

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  • Randy

    Get her drunk and ask! That’s my motto

    • Jacqueline

      I am a married Jewish wife and mother. When our lovemaking started to be less satisfying my husband and I began sharing our sexual fantasies. It was not an easy decision but we decided to to act on my husbands strongest fantasy which was me having sex with a black stranger. All I can say is WOW. My first lover was 15 years my junior, I was 38 he was 23. He was extremely we’ll endowed and shonda of all shondas he was not circumsized. It was sex for the sake of sex and it was totally amazing. It definitely worked for us. However the upshot is that now
      every few weeks we go and find a well hung black man to use me sexually.

  • The Horniest Partner

    I heard a story where a couple separated for 6 months and both were sleeping with others during the split. The wife, while satisfied by the husband, ended up being with a guy who was much bigger than the husband and she really liked how the bigger unit pleasured her. When the couple got back together, the wife did not enjoy the husband as much due to the size difference.
    BTW, I got a blow job once from a married older jewish lady. She was really good at it which surprised me given her age. I put a huge load in her mouth (I was in my 20s at the time and in great shape) and she gladly accepted it. I had called her after that but I think it was just a little fun she wanted to have without her husband knowing.

  • ProudHubby

    This is a huge fantasy of mine, and one that my wife and I frequently discuss. You have captured the varying aspects of the fantasy well, and I too go back and forth in weighing the benefits and drawbacks of various partners and settings. Jew or gentile? Black or white? Friend or stranger? Intimate or anonymous? Each has its appeal, and each its moment in the fantasy spotlight.

  • Don’t Do It

    I think this is one of those cases where the fantasy is much better than the reality. Once you allow your wife to get intimate with another man you open up a Pandora’s Box of possibilities, many of which you did not foresee and some of which may have seriously detrimental consequences on your marriage and sex lives. I would urge you to contemplate this and by all means do not just spring it on your wife without talking to her about it first. As a much safer alternative, you may want to consider role playing instead where you play the part of a horny stranger and she the part of the philandering wife. Show up separately at a bar somewhere, strike up a conversation and then go to a nearby hotel/motel and seal the deal. Never break character and this will serve as a great and much safer alternative for you, her and your marriage.

  • Sheravi

    From a female – I say go for it. My husband and I recently allowed ourselves to start exploring some of these ideas by visiting swinger clubs and meeting others online. Though scary the first time (the risk, the worry of ruining/breaking the relationship), if you are both into it and have a strong relationship to begin with it, you’ll probably come out the other end surprised and happy, with an even hotter and more satisfying sex life than before. But I do also think you need to be aware of the 3rd parties feelings. I think better to meet people in a swinger bar or something, where the intentions and expectations are a little more up front. It might be harder to find a random guy in a random bar who is both gam, and who doesn’t get attached/hung up on her. Good luck! Oh, and BTW, I don’t think it matters if they are Jewish or not. It’s not like this person is joining your household and procreating with you.

  • Shomilv

    WelL, consider according to Jewish law, once your wife married to you under the chuppah has sex with another man she becomes forbidden to you and you have to divorce her. Probably best to roleplay or make up stories.