In my last column, I reflected on the nature of Jewrotica and likened it to the conversation about the nature of Jewish art. The comparison is fitting, as earlier this fall I had the opportunity to visit the largest erotic art collection in North America (and possibly the world) owned by… a seventy eight year old Jewish grandmother.
When Naomi Wilzig contacted me and invited me to Miami Beach to experience the World Erotic Art Museum (WEAM), I was intrigued. Naomi thought that her collection might be interesting for Jewrotica and indeed it was, but I wondered what the Jewish connection might be.
After a brief conversation, I learned that Naomi was raised in a Sabbath observant, kosher-keeping and mikvah-going home with five siblings. Raised in New Jersey, Naomi met her husband – an Auschwitz survivor – at eighteen and they eloped together, building for themselves a successful life in south Florida. Naomi became involved in the Jewish Federation, Hadassah and Chabad, but until her 70th birthday, perhaps the most out-of-the-box thing she had done had been eloping with her husband.
So how does a nice Jewish grandmother become the owner and curator of the largest erotic art museum in North America? About twenty years ago, Naomi’s adult son was in the process of furnishing his new apartment and asked his mother to pick out a piece of erotic art that would be a conversation starter. In our interview, Naomi told me that she “knew the word erotic meant sexual”, but that was about the extent of her knowledge. Naomi was curious to learn more about this field and purchased art piece after art piece for her son. None of the pieces suited him, but in the process Naomi became introduced to and captivated by the world of erotic art, and eventually opened up the World Erotic Art Museum eight years ago.
I wasn’t sure what to expect when I pulled up in front of WEAM in Miami Beach, but I found the presence of mezuzahs at the elevator and by the museum entrance to be strangely calming. I tentatively walked in, was greeted by the art director who was expecting me and was amazed at the collection. Rooms fed into more rooms and more rooms, the artwork and collections categorized by culture and geography – some of which were modern and others of which dated back over 200 years. I received permission to photograph my favorite pieces, some of which you’ll see below.
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Bedside Reading with Jewrotica was funny, sexy, and hot all at once. The readings were honest about all kinds of sexuality, but the highlight of the evening was definitely the confessions, written by audience participants. Nobody knew who wrote them, and most were tell-alls that would make your bubbe blush. Unless your bubbe was very, very cool. Then maybe she’d make YOU blush!
Jewrotica rocks. It’s funny, it’s informative, it’s sexy, it’s interesting. Check it out!
I stepped out of my comfort zone to be a part of this. I was glad to open up the topic of sexuality in my community. We are trying to build a safe space to talk about sex. The result I am most happy about coming from this event is that hopefully now my friends know they can come and talk to me, that I can be their ‘safe space’.
The people behind Jewrotica are quite quality! I have confidence that any project these folks take on will be equally quality.
Jewrotica is something that the community has needed for a long time so that people can actually learn, express and share and have good relationships without having to stumble through life. Check out the site and learn something. Have fun!
You may not tell your mom that you’re going to a live Jewrotica reading (or whatever clever name you will dub these events) but you will tell your friends. However, both would be jealous if they find out that they missed it. I think it will only be a matter of time before Jewrotica helps us reclaim the term “Dirty Jew” the way rap music has done for “The ‘N’ Word.” I know I am now proud to be a Dirty Jew!
Jewrotica is inspiring Jews and erotica with holiness and coolness, and is the pride of progressive Judaism. Jewrotica – awesome!
What an incredible night Jewrotica was!!!! There was this fantastic moment, in a sea of Jews of all sexualities, ages, backgrounds and denominations, that I realized we were all in this together! I hope that there are many more events coming to Austin soon!
I had a great time deejaying at the Jewrotica event at Columbia University. The live readings were hilarious, informative, and in some cases, deeply moving. I know that I, along with many of my AEPi fraternity brothers, loved being able to connect our Judaism and our sexuality in a way that made all of us feel comfortable and welcome. I look forward to being a part of this again in the future!
Learning about sex and what’s right and wrong when it comes to sex from a Biblical standpoint was an eye opening experience. I completely enjoyed it and think something like this could be a very cool thing to bring to even high school aged Jewish youth groups.
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