Pent-up sexual energy is a powerful force, and so is the allure of the taboo–especially when it’s birthed from religious disenfranchisement.
The conversation devolved into what it would be like to have a threesome with the Elephant on the road, now long disappeared into our rearview mirror.
There was some dirty talk. We had been on the same one-lane road for hours, with nowhere to pull over so we could get in the backseat and fuck among our beach gear and bike helmets. We had to content ourselves with words, with imagining who our lucky third wheel would be, what she would do, how we would negotiate the sheer physical fact of three people in a bed, instead of two.
When we finally arrived at our rental house, we fucked immediately, frenzied and voracious. “Let’s do this,” we whispered afterwards. “I want to.”
But who? Like a teenage boy in a sex comedy, we were gripped, driven, and defined by desire, but had no idea where or how to find release. It’s not like you can just sidle up to some chick on the street and say “excuse me, ma’am, but I’d like you to help me blow my boyfriend and then fuck you while he watches.” It’s the eternal problem of dating, times three; it’s uncool to advertise so openly what you want. There’s a process involved. Whether it takes a night or a month, both parties partake of an equal amount of coaxing and flattering, of selective self-representation, before they end up in bed. This process is magnified, complicated, when two thirds of the equation is looking for something so specific. Not just sex, but a threesome with a hot, uninhibited stranger who wouldn’t spend the night.
We both rejected Craigslist out of hand, terrified of who or what we might find. Neither of us had any interest in fucking our friends (too awkward) or contracting a stranger’s gonorrhea. I made subtle inquiries of a friend who engages in regular threesomes with her live-in boyfriend. She instructed me to live with hippies and make lots of polyamorous friends. Helpful.
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I’m so glad that Jewrotica is represented here at Jewlicious! It’s bringing voices that need to be heard in the Jewish discussion and Jewish climate environment.
I’m into Jewrotica. I went in for my second circumcision.
I love the inclusiveness – there is something for everyone, in and out of the Jewish community.
I’m Heshy Fried from Frum Satire and I am very, very frum. And I completely support Jewrotica – it’s doing a service to the frum community. We need some sort of kosher sexual education. Jewrotica even has a system that allows frum filters to filter out certain things to make it PG for us. It’s mamish Torah. It’s like The Little Midrash Says for sex.
Such an amazing experience! The Sarah Lawrence Jewrotica workshop was more than I could have ever expected – a comfortable, safe, sultry environment where participants clearly felt good about sharing or listening to each other’s intimate experiences and relating them to sexy stories from the Torah. From the moment the workshop began, Ayo had a sweet presence that was kinetic and spread around the room; her storytelling abilities had everyone enraptured and made the conversation topics relata… Read more
While many people fear the “sex talk,” Jewrotica offers an opportunity for writers and audiences to speak about sexuality in a open and safe space. When I attended a Jewrotica reading, I heard stories that reminded me that love takes many forms, and that expressing it is a vital part of who we are as a people.
I stepped out of my comfort zone to be a part of this. I was glad to open up the topic of sexuality in my community. We are trying to build a safe space to talk about sex. The result I am most happy about coming from this event is that hopefully now my friends know they can come and talk to me, that I can be their ‘safe space’.
Jewrotica is inspiring Jews and erotica with holiness and coolness, and is the pride of progressive Judaism. Jewrotica – awesome!
The Jewrotica event “Evening of Jewrotica: Bedside Reading” was awesome. As Master of Confessions, I got to read the deepest, darkest secrets of people in the room out loud… It was scintillating, titillating, and – yes – even educational!
Jewrotica is a great way to ask interesting questions about the interplay between sensuality and Jewish wisdom. Check it out.
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