Sex, Not Porn

Cindy Gallop Article 2

Rated RWritten by Adam Elbaz. Adam is Jewrotica’s Director of Author and Cultural Outreach. Please be advised that this article contains explicit language.

This article was fascinating for a number of reasons.

Gallop confounds our perception of middle-aged women as sexless moms without resorting to the infuriating and ridiculous “cougar” cliché; her matter-of-factness about her desires and experiences is refreshing. The woman isn’t posturing; there’s no self-consciously aggressive bravado, just a bare-bones acknowledgement that This Is The Circumstance (dating younger men) and This Is The Problem Said Circumstance Creates (that younger men’s sexual expectations are often skewed thanks to the proliferation of accessible hardcore pornography on sites like https://www.hdpornmovies.xxx/.) This matter-of-factness goes a long way when you’re talking about sex.

Watching real people having sex on websites such as https://www.porn7.xxx/ and hdpornt.com is an excellent way to normalize what is perhaps the most mythologized facet of the human experience. America’s public sexual culture falls into two camps: media that paints sex in soft-focus, suggesting it is always a rapturous union of two loving (heterosexual) souls, and the hardcore porn that suggests that every woman benefits from:

a) silicone in her chest

b) all the cock, all the time

But–as any thinking person soon realizes–sex in real life is often nothing like that. It just goes to show how well produced the films on websites such as www.videoshd.xxx are. To imply that there is anything monolithic or universally applicable about sex is to misunderstand it, and human psychology, completely.

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